Being the fun aunt is easy. Becoming an aunt they confide in and connect with takes more.
Of course I take the role of being a fun aunt very seriously. I also know I have a larger responsibility to my nieces and nephews.
Being a fun aunt is effortless, but forging genuine connections with her nieces and nephew requires more effort. Author Emily Cappiello explains how she built deeper relationships with her nieces and nephew by dedicating one-on-one time, known as "Auntie Emily Days," to each child.
Initially, Cappiello adopted the traditional stereotype of the busy aunt—showing up for birthdays, holidays, and special occasions, providing snacks, gifts, and participating in activities. However, as her nieces and nephew grew older, she realized she was no longer getting to know them as individuals.
She began planning personalized adventures tailored to each child's interests, like visiting The Melting Pot for dinner or a cat café for a casual outing. By allowing the children to suggest activities, Cappiello found that they opened up about their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a more intimate setting.
These "Auntie Emily Days" enabled Cappiello to connect with her nieces and nephew on a deeper level, learning about their personalities, dreams, and concerns. Through these undivided moments, she formed stronger bonds that went beyond the occasional gifts and parties. As the children grew, their willingness to confide in Cappiello became essential as they aged, providing a safe space for them to express themselves.
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