Everyone needs a death to-do list – here are 25 things to sort out while you're alive
Does your family know your end-of-life wishes? Or where to find your will, passwords, bank accounts and subscriptions? Creating a death to-do list now can spare your loved ones unnecessary stress and uncertainty, whether your passing is expected or sudden.
Advance death planning is an essential act of love for your loved ones, as it helps alleviate their stress and uncertainty during a difficult time, explains Jeanice Cheong, a clinical psychologist at Bright Psych of Life. Despite the taboo nature of death in many societies, creating a death to-do list can prove invaluable. This includes writing down your final wishes, storing important passwords, planning your funeral, and appointing guardians for your children or pets.
The list can also clarify your priorities, values, and relationships, allowing you to focus on what truly matters in life. Johnathan Lee, a lawyer at Fong & Fong LLC, emphasizes the importance of planning your funeral, as it can help avoid confusion and conflict among family members. Decide who will oversee your funeral and who will deliver the eulogy to reduce any disagreements.
In addition, ensure that your will provides for minors, beloved pets, and family harmony. It can also protect sentimental items from being sold off by the executor. When drafting your will, consider including a letter of wishes that explains your decisions on guardianship, asset division, and funeral arrangements. This will help your family better understand your intentions and prevent any misunderstandings.
Lastly, appoint a trusted person to manage your estate, as it is crucial for them to have access to all necessary information.
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