Three in 10 couples set on divorce changed their minds after counselling, says Family’s Ministry sec-gen

Thirty percent of couples who initially intended to divorce reconsidered their decision after participating in family counselling sessions organized by the National Population and Family Development Board (LPPKN), according to Datuk Dr Maziah Che Yusoff, Secretary-General of the Ministry of Women, Family and Community Development (KPWKM).

Dr Maziah emphasized during an appearance on the Kasih Lensa Keluarga podcast that counselling enables couples to better comprehend domestic disputes and reassess their choice to separate. Although the success rate appears modest, she considered it a significant achievement given the program's recent inception last year. Poor communication between spouses commonly serves as the primary catalyst for familial discord, she highlighted, stating that counselling offers a platform for open dialogue and emotional regulation.

Sometimes, the core issue at hand is trivial, yet it profoundly impacts both parties' sentiments. When couples engage in a calm discussion, they can gain perspective on their marriage's and family's future. KPWKM will persist in enhancing family intervention services by drawing on insights and experiences from current initiatives, according to Dr Maziah.

The National Family Compassion Policy (DKKN) 2026-2030, instituted by Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim on February 14, underscores the importance of family strengthening as part of the policy. The policy, grounded in the five Kasih values—Affection, Trust, Health, Knowledge, and Harmony—addresses complex familial challenges and societal issues.

The five strategic thrusts of DKKN encompass marriage, family planning, parenting, inclusive family support, and conflict resolution. Dr Maziah elaborated that contemporary parenting challenges stem from children's exposure not only to their home environment but also to digital technology, social media, schools, and peers. She cautioned that a child alone in their room may not escape outside influences due to smartphones.

Dr Maziah stressed that strengthening the family institution requires collaboration among the government, communities, and schools, rather than solely the responsibility of parents. She encouraged the public to attend the National Family Day celebration in Shah Alam from November 6-7, featuring diverse family-oriented activities and exhibitions.