My dad's death gave me a new perspective. I value experiences over money now.
When my dad died, I reevaluated how I approach work. I'm honoring him by living a more full life, and valuing experiences over money.
The author's father passed away in September 2024, which prompted her to reassess her work ethic. Previously, she consistently worked long hours, often until late at night, even during weekends and school vacations. However, after her father's death, she noticed a shift in her priorities. Despite still earning enough to meet her financial needs, she now places a higher value on experiences and personal fulfillment.
In her memoir, she recounts how the stories and eulogies that poured in after her father's passing highlighted his generosity, kindness, adventurous spirit, and talent. Her father's last kitesurfing session was the week before his death, and he continued to pursue various hobbies and interests, including astronomy, chess, and art.
This exposure to his active and fulfilling life made the author reconsider her own approach to living. She has since moved to the coast, started scuba diving, surfing, and lifting weights, and has rekindled her passion for painting and playing the guitar. While she acknowledges that she is still figuring out what life without her father looks like, she feels that her father's example inspires her to embrace life to the fullest.
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