I've never lied to my 10-year-old about death, Santa, or what's really in her dinner
I've never lied to my daughter, even about Santa Claus. I believe being honest with kids builds trust, even when the truth is uncomfortable.
The author has not lied to her 10-year-old daughter about death, Santa, or what is really in her dinner. She does not believe in telling white lies, even when telling the truth makes parenting more difficult. The author believes that honesty has strengthened her relationship with her daughter and that most parents lie to their children at least once in a while.
The author is uncomfortable with lying and refuses to do it, as she views it as wrong, whether told to adults or children. Her husband respects her stance, but he does not always follow it and has told their child a few lies. The author has avoided lying for the past decade since becoming a mother. She does not believe that she is superior to other parents, but she knew she wanted to approach parenting differently and this is one of those ways.
Not lying does not mean sharing every detail, and some things should remain a mystery. The author was vague when her daughter asked about a family member's divorce and remained consistent in her approach to honesty. When her daughter asked if Santa was real, the author did not tell her that Santa existed, but she allowed her to believe in him.
The author listened and nodded when her daughter questioned his existence, and she also told her that many people, including her classmates, believe in Santa. The author aims to instill honesty in her daughter and set a good example by being truthful with her.
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