Our memorial garden helps us grieve - a cemetery felt too far away
Emma Moore shares how creating a special place at home has helped her family.
When Emma Moore's daughter Mabel passed away, visiting her in a cemetery felt too distant. Mabel was born prematurely, her lungs unprepared, and she lived only two days. To keep Mabel close, Emma created a memorial garden in her home.
Creating a peaceful space can help people remember loved ones, according to Andy Langford, clinical director at Cruse Bereavement Support. Langford recommends incorporating willow trees, lilies, and scented plants for a calming atmosphere. Different flowers carry varying meanings and scents, so choosing what is personally comforting is essential.
For Emma, the willow tree and lilies symbolize peace and remembrance. Sitting by the bench with a cup of tea, Emma finds solace in the daily routine she's created. Langford suggests benches in public memorial gardens for a sense of permanence and respite from daily stresses.
In Mabel's garden, a swing surrounded by flower planters adds to the comfort and comfort of the space. For those without a garden, indoor plants like peace lilies, frangipanis, and chrysanthemums can help create a memorial space at home.
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