We live on a 'family compound' with my parents and siblings. These 7 things have surprised me most about the arrangement.
My husband, daughter, and I live in a separate house on my parents' property. We've encountered lots of surprises about our unique living arrangement.
Taylor Bunting and her husband live on a family compound with her parents, siblings, and an in-law. Despite living so close to each other, they maintain separate houses, routines, and personal lives. Privacy and boundaries are essential, with siblings respecting bedtime and parents texting before visiting. Multigenerational living is often misunderstood, with people confusing it for communal living or religious groups.
Casual get-togethers and dinners occur spontaneously, with family members popping over without prior notice. Living with family has improved the reporter's mental health, providing companionship, assistance, and a support system. It has also strengthened her marriage, as she and her husband benefit from support, hobbies, and self-care outlets.
After only six months, living in their home feels normal, and the setup is far from the typical expectations of a family compound.
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