Disiplinang walang palo: Challenging common Filipino parenting misbeliefs
More frequent spanking is linked to greater anxiety and aggression in children over time, according to international research that includes Filipino families presented by psychology professor Dr. Liane Peña Alampay of the Ateneo de Manila University. The findings challenge the familiar belief that "pamamalo" produces more disciplined children, pointing instead to the benefits of warm…
A new study challenges the common Filipino belief that strict discipline makes children more obedient. International research involving Filipino families found that frequent physical punishment actually increases children's anxiety and aggression over time. Instead, warm relationships, clear rules and nonviolent discipline produce better outcomes across cultures.
Dr. Liane Peña Alampay, a psychology professor from Ateneo de Manila University, presented these findings at her Ateneo Breakthroughs Lecture. The research, part of the largest multicultural and longitudinal study in the world, tracked children and parents in nine countries for 15 years. In all cases, more physical punishment led to more anxiety and aggression in kids. In the Philippines, corporal punishment is often seen as normal discipline, but the study corrects that notion.
Alampay emphasized that discipline can take many forms, not just harsh punishment. Children need to feel loved and respected, not harshly punished. The study also debunks the idea that warm parenting is a Western concept. Filipino children thrived when they felt valued and accepted. Authoritarian parenting styles contrasting with more authoritative ones fostering positive development.
Strong family ties were protective factors as well, with Filipino participants benefitting from helping in the home and respecting parents. However, family obligations could have both positive and negative effects, warranting further study. External pressures like poverty and violence also influenced parenting practices, increasing the risk of harsh discipline.
Alampay discussed Masayang Pamilya, a Philippine adaptation of a global parenting program that teaches positive caregiver-child relationships, reduces violence at home and enhances well-being. A trial showed sustained benefits for a year. Most parents are motivated to change their approach once shown effective methods. Alampay's message is one of support and empathy, encouraging parents to unlearn harmful practices and learn new skills to nurture positive relationships with their children.
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