Kajol says her children don’t ‘get her sense of humour’: Why this is common across generations

Raising children in the digital age presents unique challenges, as illustrated by an episode of The Great Kapil Sharma Show. Kajol revealed that her children do not understand her sense of humor or her Instagram posts. The psychologist Ashutosh Tiwari, MindGlass Well-being, explained that this disconnect is a common issue among parents worldwide due to the evolving nature of humor across generations.

Three factors contribute to this gap, according to Tiwari: the global village effect, tech dependency, and the dominance of English culture. In a more interconnected world, parents and children are exposed to similar global fashion, viral trends, and food preferences, which can distance them from one another. Moreover, the prevalence of technology and pop culture has led to a reduced reliance on community interactions, leaving younger generations less engaged with their parents and elders.

Additionally, the influence of foreign culture and language has overshadowed traditional local customs, making it difficult for younger generations to appreciate the nuances of their own heritage. This shift has also led to a decline in the use of stereotypical and prejudiced humor, as older generations have become more aware of issues such as gender, race, and domicile. Consequently, humor has become more sensitive and respectful of cultural differences, reducing the frequency of offensive jokes.

To bridge this generational humor gap, Tiwari recommended fostering open communication between parents and children. By asking about their feelings regarding certain jokes and discussing why certain comments may be offensive, parents can encourage a more empathetic understanding of humor. Sharing personal experiences and explaining the evolution of humor over time can also help younger generations appreciate the context behind their parents' jokes.

Lastly, parents should guide their children in distinguishing between good humor, which promotes camaraderie, and bad humor, which aims to belittle or offend others.