I thought being a grandmother would be easier than being a mother. Now that I am one, it's harder in many ways.
I know the time I spend with my grandchildren can leave a lasting impact. Sometimes I worry what that might be.
The author shared her thoughts on the responsibilities of being a grandmother compared to being a mother. While she once believed being a grandparent would be an easier role, she now realizes it comes with double the responsibility. The stakes are higher as she could potentially hurt both her own child and her grandchild. She admitted she is much more cautious and worried about various scenarios, such as dropping her granddaughter, burning her bottle, or the dog biting her.
The author expressed her fear that any harm could affect not only her granddaughter but also her son and his wife. Despite her extensive knowledge from her psychology degree, she still worries about how her interactions with her grandchildren may be perceived. She contemplates if her actions or words are being misinterpreted and if she is providing too much or too little support.
The author acknowledged that she now focuses on loving her grandchildren unconditionally and ensuring they feel her love.
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