Lessons from the Relationship Between Sheikh Bala Lau and Sheikh Kabiru Gombe

The relationship between Sheikh Abdullahi Bala Lau, Chairman of Jama’atu Izalatil Bid’a Wa Iqamatis Sunnah (JIBWIS), and Sheikh Kabiru Haruna Gombe, its Secretary, offers valuable lessons in Muslim communities across Nigeria, West Africa, and beyond. Their friendship, built on mutual respect, serves as an example for others to emulate.

Firstly, their friendship transcends differences in positions, ages, backgrounds, personalities, and life circumstances. They exhibit mutual respect not only through their words but also through their body language and interactions with others. This respect is evident in how they interact with individuals like the reporter, showing that they value each other despite the passage of time.

Secondly, the scholars refuse to use their differences in knowledge or position as a basis for superiority. They demonstrate humility by often dressing alike, eating together, and sitting together, without emphasizing their leadership roles. The Secretary frequently reminds the Chairman to speak first during interactions, and they frequently collaborate and refer to joint decisions, underscoring their shared leadership and mutual trust.

Lastly, the scholars practice speaking well of each other in their absence. Their wives have highlighted how deeply respected their relationship is by their families, emphasizing understanding and goodwill. This mutual support and respect extend beyond their professional roles, reflecting a strong and enduring bond that sets a positive example for others in the Muslim community.