After 35 years of marriage, this couple dreads retiring together — a retirement coach explains why it's so common

After 35 years of marriage, Linda and Gary are finding retirement a daunting prospect. The couple, who have always prioritized their careers, now face the prospect of unlimited time together. While not unhappy, they are unsure how to navigate life without work and children occupying their time. A retirement coach explains that the transition can significantly alter the dynamics of a couple's relationship.

Work previously provided structure, routines, and time apart. When one or both spouses retire, these factors change, potentially causing friction. It's crucial for couples to discuss their expectations for retirement, including time spent together, household responsibilities, hobbies, travel, and daily routines. By clarifying these expectations, couples can avoid disappointment and ensure a smooth transition into retirement.