‘Don’t do it because we are doctors’: Manushi Chhillar on the parenting lesson behind career choices

Manushi Chhillar, Miss World 2017, shared on her podcast All About Her about the parenting approach her parents took regarding her career choice. When her sister expressed interest in becoming a doctor, Chhillar's mother prepared her mentally for the reality of the decision. The mother didn't discourage her but emphasized that becoming a doctor should stem from a genuine desire, given the demanding nature of the field.

Chhillar recalled her mother preparing her for the rigorous journey ahead, discussing NEET exams, four and a half years of MBBS, and the demanding curriculum. Psychologist Prerna Pant highlighted this as a healthy parenting approach, combining honesty with freedom of choice. This parenting style allows children to make decisions without feeling pressured, knowing their parents will support them regardless of their choices.

Chhillar also touched upon the peer pressure from her friends, many of whom expected her to become a doctor due to the medical background of her family. However, she grew up knowing she could make her own choices and would face support regardless of her decision. Chhillar's parents ensured she understood the commitment required of a medical career, giving her the confidence to make an informed choice.

Psychologists agree that such balanced parenting not only helps children make thoughtful decisions but also builds resilience and self-belief.