‘Don’t do it because we are doctors’: Manushi Chhillar on the parenting lesson behind career choices

Manushi Chhillar, the Miss World 2017, grew up with doctors as her parents and was often surrounded by medical professionals. When her sister expressed interest in becoming a doctor, Chhillar's mother prepared her mentally, explaining that she should pursue medicine only if she genuinely wanted to, not because it was a family tradition.

This parenting approach emphasizes honesty and balanced expectations, allowing the child to make an informed decision without feeling pressured. Psychologist Prerna Pant describes this as healthy, as it combines honesty about a career's challenges with freedom of choice, giving children the support they need even if they change their minds.

Chhillar also noted the peer pressure she faced, with many friends expecting her to follow in their medicos' footsteps. However, she credits her upbringing for giving her the confidence to make her own choices, knowing her parents would support her regardless of her decision. Psychologists highlight that such parenting styles foster confidence, resilience, and a healthy perspective on life.

Chhillar's story illustrates the importance of honest and balanced guidance in helping children make informed decisions about their futures.