Why politics never leaves you alone — Khoo Ying Hooi

August 9 — A conversation with a friend sparked this article, as many people express their desire to escape politics. They yearn for a life of peace, free from the drama, betrayals, and endless cycle of promises and disappointments. Yet, politics persists in their lives, regardless of their efforts to ignore it. You can choose not to follow politics, stop reading the news, or refrain from arguing about elections or politicians.

However, stepping away from politics does not mean politics has left you alone. Decisions continue to be made, rules are continuously written, and boundaries are drawn, even when you remain silent. You may believe that leaving the country will provide an escape, but politics follows you, transporting you from one political reality to another.

Politics is not confined to Parliament or political rallies; it permeates everyday life through questions about race, religion, royalty, language, and belonging. Malaysians learn from a young age how to navigate these sensitive topics, understanding which subjects require a softer voice and which may provoke a negative reaction.

The famous Malaysian phrase, "better not," encapsulates the power to silence conversations and questions. While silence may be a means of survival, it can also become a tool that sustains power. In Malaysia, the constant tension between power and silence has persisted for a long time. Despite changes in governments and political landscapes, certain habits of political life remain challenging to disrupt.

Changing who governs is not equivalent to altering the underlying power structures. Even when a new coalition inherits old governing methods or a reformist government maintains similar tools, institutions may continue to operate as before. Politicians might claim to champion openness, but once in power, they may find the appeal of control more enticing.

Those who once protested being silenced might become less inclined to support dissent when they are the ones facing objections. This cycle of hypocrisy and acceptance has been a familiar pattern in Malaysia's political history. The realization that politics is inescapable is an uncomfortable truth that many Malaysians must confront.

Even if you harbor disdain for politics, avoid political discussions, and refuse to participate in protests, you remain deeply embedded within a political system that continues to shape your life. Privilege may offer more room and choices, but you are still subject to the same laws, institutions, and political decisions. You may experience the consequences of these choices less intensely, but you cannot claim to be outside the realm of politics.