Love story: Supporting your soulmate through voluntary assisted dying
Hilda Quiroga says she was "struck" by Steve Mayer from the moment they first met until his death at 53 through voluntary assisted dying.
Hilda Quiroga met Steve Mayer in 2007 during their time in Naarm/Melbourne. They married in 2008 and spent the next 18 years traveling the world together. Steve, a barista and musician, was diagnosed with terminal cancer in September. Hilda quit her job and became his full-time carer, even handling household chores. Despite the challenging circumstances, the couple remained intimate and supportive of each other.
Hilda applied for voluntary assisted dying (VAD) and Steve administered the medication on his own terms. In his final moments, he whispered that it was time to rest. Hilda continues to mourn his loss but feels comforted by the knowledge that Steve passed away on his own terms. She cherishes the memories they shared and believes that their love was a blessing.
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