Society overlooks women’s sacrifices, Mary Njoku reflects on women’s struggles

Nollywood actress Mary Njoku has spoken out against society's tendency to disregard the sacrifices and accomplishments of women. In an Instagram post, she recalled a conversation with a male colleague who complained about the pressures of providing for others, building a business, and supporting those who relied on him. Njoku empathised with his struggle, but the colleague dismissed her understanding, asserting that women could not relate to such burdens. She then signed his cheque and wished him well, without arguing.

Reflecting on the experiences of many African women, Njoku highlighted that countless women have carried the weight of entire families for generations, often without receiving acknowledgment. These women helped raise siblings, paid school fees, supported parents, cared for relatives, and shouldered responsibilities that were never meant for one person alone.

Some still perform these tasks today, even after marrying and starting their own families. Despite these contributions, their efforts are often overlooked, with their achievements attributed to the nearest man in the room or expected to be carried quietly, as if they were never there.

Society tends to celebrate men as providers while treating women's contributions as expected, invisible, or secondary, Njoku noted. She urged women to acknowledge the value of their efforts and celebrate their accomplishments. To every woman providing, building, leading, nurturing, sacrificing, succeeding at work, and maintaining her home, Njoku said, "Take your flowers.

You've been carrying far more than most people will ever acknowledge. Your work matters. Your sacrifices count. Your success is yours. And you don't need anyone's permission to own it."