A tribute to Sittamma Kumarihamy Mahadiulwewa (Mrs. M.D. Banda)
My Amma – A Life of Quiet Strength Amma was born as the second child in the Mahadiulwewaa family of six children, three girls and three boys. Their parents were PBD Mahadiulwewa, Village Tribunal President, and Monnankulame Dingiriamma Kumarihamy. She grew up alongside her siblings Malini, Raja, Asoka, Padma, and Tissa, of whom only the […]
Sittamma Kumarihamy Mahadiulwewa, affectionately known as Amma, was born into a family of six children in Sri Lanka. Her father, PBD Mahadiulwewa, was the Village Tribunal President, while her mother, Monnankulame Dingiriamma Kumarihamy, passed away when Amma was just twelve. This loss left a profound impact on her, but Amma and her older sister quickly learned to support each other and care for their siblings.
Amma's upbringing was steeped in values of simplicity, discipline, and responsibility, largely influenced by her father. She was sent to the Holy Family Convent in Anuradhapura for primary education and later to Hillwood College in Kandy, a boarding school established for young Kandyan girls. Amma's outgoing nature thrived in this diverse environment, where she later developed a lively sense of humor and penchant for mischievous pranks.
Even in her girlhood, Amma's calm demeanor remained consistent, a trait that her parents, especially her husband Appachchi, recognized. Despite her husband's political ambitions, Amma carefully balanced her role as a supportive spouse and a devoted mother to their seven children. Once Appachchi entered politics, Amma gracefully stepped back, allowing him to dedicate himself fully to his career and represent Sri Lanka on international stages.
Amma's strength lay in her quiet presence, a steadfast pillar for her family during both good times and hardships. She never sought recognition for her contributions, but rather lived her life by example, demonstrating kindness, empathy, and unwavering support for her loved ones. Her influence extended beyond her immediate family, as she welcomed numerous young helpers into their home, treating them as part of the family herself.
Amma's devotion to her family was unwavering, particularly after Appachchi's passing. At the age of 53, she continued to raise her children, providing comfort and stability in a time of great emotional turmoil. Amma's ability to maintain a sense of calm and purpose in the face of adversity serves as a testament to her inner strength and the profound impact she had on those around her.
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