Just Like That: What matrimonial ads tell us about India
An analysis of Indian matrimonial ads shows how caste, colour, class and technology continue to define arranged marriages in modern India.
In Pavan K Varma's book "Being Indian" (2000), he shares a fascinating matrimonial ad that appeared in a major Indian newspaper. The ad read, "Wanted FAIRY LOOKS, Slim, Very Tall Educated MODERN Extremely Beautiful Bride from Industrial Family For 27/187, Slim Very Handsome Only Son of Affluent, High Caste Hindu, Presently Most Liked, Senior Cabinet Minister of India.
Boy is Vegetarian Having Clean Habits And Well Settled In London in his Own Business." These ads pack a wealth of information into just a few words, revealing caste, class, color, ambition, status, gender expectations, family anxieties, and the evolving aspirations of India, a nation caught between old traditions and new modern choices.
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