How connecting with strangers can boost the sense of belonging

Everyday encounters with strangers can significantly impact an individual's sense of belonging, according to a University of Georgia researcher. While walking through a farmer's market with a crying toddler, a tired woman passed by an older woman and received a warm smile and reassurance that she was doing well. This brief, meaningful interaction made her feel recognized and valued.

Dr. Joseph Hermanowicz, a sociology professor at UGA, coined the term "evanescent interactions" to describe these fleeting moments of connection between strangers. These interactions go beyond polite pleasantries and involve a shared understanding and acknowledgement of mutual value. Hermanowicz emphasizes the importance of such exchanges in fostering a sense of community and belonging.

In his previous research on student retention, he discovered that meaningful encounters with university staff or peers greatly influenced a student's decision to continue or leave. When students felt noticed and supported, they were more likely to stay. Loneliness can be a prevalent issue, but these brief yet emotionally charged sparks of connection can help alleviate feelings of not belonging.

Hermanowicz stresses that evanescent interactions are crucial to social life and highlight the significance of empathy and recognition in strengthening human connections.