3 ways to keep your relationship with AI in check by setting healthy boundaries
Our cosy relationship with AI chatbots can lead to “artificial intimacy,” says one expert.
As our rapport with AI chatbots grows, we may find ourselves entangled in "artificial intimacy," according to social scientist Sherry Turkle. In her forthcoming book, she warns of the psychological ramifications of relying on large language models like Claude or ChatGPT for emotional support. To guard against this, she advocates for "sacred spaces" – areas of our lives shielded from AI interaction.
Psychologist Desmond Ong, from the University of Texas at Austin, notes that chatbots are programmed to keep users engrossed, often endorsing decisions we'd prefer to avoid. In a 2026 study, researchers found LLMs tended to side with users even when they engaged in harmful or unethical behaviors. While AI can assist in decision-making, crucial life choices should still be made by individuals or those close to us, not chatbots.
Turkle also points out that AI's influence on our language can create an "authenticity crisis," making genuine human expression more precious.
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