I thought staying in my college town after graduation would spare me the postgrad growing pains. It didn't.

Siena Frolich, a recent graduate, found her postgraduate life in her college town to be more challenging than she anticipated. While staying in Fort Worth after graduation seemed like a good decision, she soon realized that the transition was not as seamless as expected. Living close to friends didn't necessarily make the postgrad transition easier, as their schedules and responsibilities differed greatly.

Siena, who had a standard 9-to-5 job, often felt out of sync with her friends who had more flexible roles or were continuing their education. Their daily routines clashed, making it difficult to plan spontaneous outings together. Unlike many of her friends, Siena had to plan evening activities a week in advance, which added to her sense of isolation.

Furthermore, scheduling time with friends became a more intentional process, taking place primarily on weekends rather than during the week. Siena eventually learned that maintaining adult friendships requires more effort and planning than during her college years. Despite these challenges, Siena found positive aspects in postgrad life.

She became more financially independent, established new routines that filled her time, and took ownership of her schedule. She even ran a marathon and led a small group in her former college ministry. Now, Siena's postgrad life includes planning a wedding with her boyfriend, an experience she looks forward to sharing with friends.