An ADHD diagnosis can be a map to guide a person through challenging territory—not to avoid it altogether
Picture a young person who walks out of my office with a new ADHD diagnosis and feels relief. There is finally a name for years of missed deadlines and unfinished paperwork.
Imagine a young individual leaving my office with an ADHD diagnosis, feeling a sense of relief. Finally, there is a name for the years of missed deadlines and unfinished paperwork. Later, they use that diagnosis to end a heated argument at home about an unmade bed and a mound of unopened mail, stating, "I can't do that, I have ADHD."
In another scenario, a student approaches me requesting a medical note to be excused from a written assignment. Rather than seeking extra time, a quieter room, or assistance in breaking the work into steps, they wish for the assignment to be dropped entirely. In my clinic in Mexico City, I frequently witness both situations, each raising the same question: Does an ADHD diagnosis explain why a task is more challenging? Usually, yes. Does it determine which tasks the person should avoid altogether? Rarely.
I am a liaison psychiatrist at the National Medical Center 20 de Noviembre in Mexico City and a professor of medicine at the National Autonomous University of Mexico. My work focuses on how psychiatric diagnoses impact a person's daily life, including how anxiety and ADHD can overlap. I frequently issue school and work notes based on these diagnoses.
Research has begun to measure the extent to which a diagnosis influences a person's perception of themselves. When utilized as a map, a diagnosis highlights the challenging areas and the optimal route through them. For example, mornings may be when a patient struggles, so we plan accordingly: medication, increased structure, and skill-building.
However, when used as an alibi—an excuse to evade responsibility—a diagnosis casts the entire territory as off-limits. Studies suggest that these two interpretations lead to vastly different outcomes: one in which someone navigates the day successfully, and another in which their life contracts around the diagnosis.
Psychologists studying chronic illness refer to the degree to which a diagnosis permeates a person's self-concept as "illness identity." A Belgian study of adolescents and young adults with type 1 diabetes identified four ways individuals relate to a diagnosis: rejection (acting as if the diagnosis doesn't exist), acceptance (it's part of them but not the entirety of who they are), enrichment (it has taught them something), and engulfment (it overshadows every aspect of their identity).
Engulfment occurs when a person can no longer describe their identity, goals, or strengths without the diagnosis dominating their self-perception. In 2025, an Israeli team surveyed 154 adolescents with ADHD regarding how much their diagnosis had shaped their sense of self. They discovered that the level of engulfment predicted quality of life more strongly than the severity of symptoms.
Of the four patterns, engulfment was the sole predictor of why more severe symptoms corresponded with a diminished quality of life. Other studies have found a similar pattern in adolescents with ADHD, linking a greater engulfment of the diagnosis to poorer executive functioning, self-management, and overall life quality. These findings suggest a correlation between self-identity, well-being, and the extent to which a diagnosis defines a person's sense of self.
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