Soundarya Rajinikanth recalls parents’ support during divorce: ‘They stood as a rock’

Soundarya Rajinikanth, the daughter of Tamil superstar Rajinikanth, recently discussed the pivotal role her parents played during her divorce. In an interview with entertainment journalist Nayandeep Rakshit, she revealed that her parents provided unwavering support during her most challenging times. She emphasized that a child's first father figure is their father and their first friend is their mother, and this bond strengthens as they grow older.

Kruti Shah, a clinical psychologist at Mpower, Aditya Birla Education Trust, highlighted the importance of parental support during emotionally taxing situations like divorce. She stated that children cope best when they feel seen and supported by their parents. Shah explained that when parents create a safe space for their children to express their emotions, acknowledge their fears, and remain emotionally present, it significantly reduces feelings of shame and confusion.

According to Shah, managing one's own stress, maintaining routines, and gently challenging societal stigmas are essential in helping individuals feel grounded during such transitions. If someone begins to feel overwhelmed, Shah recommends seeking timely professional support to navigate these changes effectively.

However, Mehezabin Dordi, a Clinical Psychologist at Sir HN Reliance Foundation Hospital, pointed out that divorce remains a taboo in Indian society, contributing to low divorce rates worldwide. Dordi noted that societal judgment often leads couples to endure unhappy marriages to avoid criticism. Women, in particular, face harsher judgment regarding their roles as wives and mothers, while men, though also judged, face less scrutiny.

Dordi acknowledged that societal views on divorce have evolved over time but acknowledged that progress has been slow. She noted that while progress has been made, significant stigma still exists in many cultures and communities, with traditional views continuing to influence opinions on divorce.