White vs traditional marriage: Aesthetics above culture?

The question of whether a white wedding is necessary or if traditional Ghanaian marriages hold more cultural value has sparked debate. While some Ghanaians argue that a white wedding is unnecessary, others find beauty in its aesthetics. Traditional marriage ceremonies in Ghana vary among ethnic groups, but they all emphasize the union of families.

For instance, the Akan practice kɔkɔɔkɔ, while the Ewe have vɔƒoƒo. The Ga perform Agboshimɔ, and the Mole-Dagbani have customs like Diɛŋ and Nyuyu ɲmabu. Despite these differences, common elements include formal family meetings, approval-seeking, and gift presentations. Some Ghanaians, like Mary, a university student, would like to experience a white wedding due to its beauty and the emotional impact of wearing a gown.

Others, like Sarah, a university graduate, appreciate the white wedding's beauty and the presence of a father or groom walking the bride down the aisle. Sarah's Christian faith also plays a role, as she believes the church ceremony's blessing by a man of God adds significance to the union. However, these weddings do not need to adhere to any specific modern format, and there is no biblical requirement for a white wedding.

Ultimately, what matters most is the couple's readiness, motivation, and the authenticity of their union.