Yang saya ingat tentang Hasmah

Dr Hasmah Ali, a remarkable woman, is remembered for more than just her association with Malaysia's Prime Minister, Dr Mahathir Mohamad. While many will write about his contributions to the nation, healthcare, public health, and society, this article aims to share a personal perspective on the woman who was more than just Mahathir's wife.

In the article, the author recalls the quiet moments they shared during their time together, when Dr Mahathir would invite them to accompany him on various tasks. One such instance involved Hasmah asking a simple question, "If you don't bother Det, can you?" The author understood this as a loving concern, stemming from Hasmah's instinct to anticipate what might affect Mahathir's thoughts or actions.

Another story recounted is about the family sofa at their old home in Alor Setar. When Hasmah noticed it had been replaced with a new one, she instinctively knew it was hers. She understood the house, its contents, and the family dynamics better than anyone else. This demonstrates her deep connection to their home and life together.

The article also highlights Hasmah's role as a devoted home-maker. She ensured that Mahathir's meals were to his liking, choosing what to take and leave on his plate. This may seem trivial, but it represents her unwavering support for her husband, even after seven decades of marriage. Her observations and attentiveness were essential to maintaining their relationship amidst his demanding political life.

The author emphasizes that Hasmah was more than just a title - "Tun." She was a housewife who knew her home inside out, her family's needs, and Mahathir's preferences. Her presence was a constant reminder that behind every great leader, there is a woman who cares for the home and family.

As Hasmah moved away, the author was left with a profound appreciation for the ordinary acts of love and care that she provided over the years. These acts, often uncelebrated, are what truly paint the picture of a life well-lived. Today, the author remembers Hasmah not just as a title, but as a woman who stood by her husband's side for seven decades, observing and supporting him as she would any beloved husband.