Friendflation: Why money is becoming more relevant in relationships
Having good friends makes it easier to get through life, have a better relationship and reduces the risk of death. But what if the friendship fails because of money?
In recent times, the importance of money in friendships has become increasingly evident, according to Wolfgang Krüger, a psychotherapist, business administrator, and author of books on finance and relationships. Krüger explains that a 80-kilometer ride from the outskirts of Berlin to the city often involves friends who later change their minds about returning by S-Bahn. When asked why they didn't want to ride back on their bicycles, Krüger says they simply didn't have the money.
Krüger admits he only understood the significance of this later when he was with a girlfriend they had biked with numerous times. To address this, Krüger devised a plan: he would cover all expenses related to their cycling adventures, while she would bring a salad in return. Krüger, a professional in the field of finance and relationships, emphasizes that for friendships with varying financial circumstances to thrive, the person with more money must take responsibility for such situations without embarrassment.
Krüger highlights the growing significance of money in friendships today. He attributes this to the widening gap between the rich and the poor and the fact that we live in uncertain times today. "In those times, money plays a greater role. And in this respect, we are currently defining ourselves more strongly by money."
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