Couples are using a viral AI agent to do their emotional labor. It’s been helpful — and chaotic.
Instinct's new "Trusted Person" feature allows couples' AI agents to interact with each other, marketed as a way to reduce mental load.
Couples are turning to a viral AI assistant, Instinct, to handle routine relationship tasks like shared to-do lists and vacation planning. While the technology can streamline daily life, it also introduces new potential for relationship drama. The new "Trusted Person" feature allows users to connect their AI agents and coordinate plans on behalf of their partners.
Some users report positive experiences, such as Alex Borkin, a 36-year-old entrepreneur, who says Instinct helps his family manage daily tasks more efficiently. However, experts warn that relying on AI agents may not eliminate emotional labor entirely, particularly for women in relationships who often bear the brunt of these responsibilities.
The technology requires access to sensitive personal information, raising privacy concerns. While Instinct can book appointments and handle complex tasks, users report incidents of privacy breaches and data leaks. Moreover, the presence of an AI agent may shift responsibility onto one partner, leading to potential conflicts.
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