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I raised 3 kids. At 70, caring for my 102-year-old mom feels like having a newborn again.

Barbara Marcanti's family estimated her mom needed $20,000 a month in care. Instead, her 100-year-old mother moved in with her.

Barbara Marcanti, a 70-year-old woman, has taken on the role of full-time caregiver for her 102-year-old mother. After her mother moved in with her to avoid costly caregiver expenses, Barbara has tried to maintain her mother's independence while dealing with the challenges of caregiving. Her mother, who had been living alone, was hospitalized due to COVID-19 and required immediate medical attention.

After consulting with her family, Barbara decided to have her mother move in with her, as it was the most financially viable and compassionate option. Over the past few years, Barbara has taken her mother on four cruises, which have brought joy to their relationship. However, Barbara's caregiving journey has also come with its own set of challenges, including dealing with her mother's forgetfulness, paying bills, and ensuring her safety.

Despite the physical and emotional toll, Barbara remains committed to providing the best possible care for her mother, who continues to surprise her with her sharp mind and love for life.

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