Parents should 'urgently' discuss sexual choking with their children

Sexual choking, also known as strangulation, is a dangerous practice that has become increasingly common among young people in Australia. A recent study found that 57% of young Australians aged 18 to 35 have experienced being choked during consensual sexual intercourse. This serious issue demands urgent discussion between parents and their children, as Vanessa Hamilton, a sexual health educator, emphasizes the importance of providing accurate information about sexual risks and respectful relationships to help protect children from harm.

Research indicates that the average age of exposure to pornography in Australia is as young as eight years old. Therefore, parents should begin teaching their children about protecting their necks and the importance of respecting others' boundaries from a young age. Jackie McMillan, senior project officer at Women's Health NSW, explains that sexual choking involves applying pressure to the neck to restrict air or blood flow during sex, a high-risk activity with no safe way to engage in it.

Consequences can include serious injury, brain damage, and even death, as well as potential legal consequences, even if the activity is consensual.

Some parents may be hesitant to discuss sex with their children, fearing it may encourage early sexual activity. However, Hamilton clarifies that providing information does not equate to giving permission. Instead, increased knowledge can lead to better decision-making. Lessons about consent and body safety should start in infancy, using correct terminology for body parts and narrating daily activities, such as diaper changes.

As children grow, parents can discuss the concept of never touching someone's neck or preventing someone from breathing.