Japan’s Nighttime Crying Cafes: A Refuge for Exhausted Parents
A baby crying through the night. A parent exhausted, worried about disturbing the neighbors and unsure where to turn for help. In Japan, a new kind of late-night refuge is emerging for those lonely hours. Known as yona-ki cafes, or “nighttime crying cafes,” these places give parents a place to bring their babies, take a […] The post Japan’s Nighttime Crying Cafes: A Refuge for Exhausted Parents…
In Japan, a unique concept is emerging to help exhausted parents during the late-night hours. These establishments, referred to as yona-ki cafes or “nighttime crying cafes,” provide a refuge for parents to bring their babies, take a break, have a drink, and connect with others who understand their struggles. Inspired by a popular manga, these cafes aim to alleviate the isolation felt by many parents raising young children.
The concept originated from a manga titled Yonaki Goya ("The Night-Crying Hut"), created by Japanese artist Kanemoto. The manga first gained traction on social media in 2017, depicting a comforting sanctuary for parents to bring their crying infants. Its message resonated with parents who felt the loneliness of nighttime parenting, leading to requests for a physical space to accommodate this need.
One such establishment is Tomosu Cafe in Sagamihara, Kanagawa Prefecture. This cafe allows parents, including fathers with infants, to enjoy coffee and conversation with a staff member who has a nursing qualification. The cafe features a resting area and toys for children, providing a space for families to relax while their little ones play nearby.
A 33-year-old office worker, visiting with her three-month-old daughter, expressed her anxiety about being a new mother and emphasized the reassurance she felt in knowing such a place exists for advice and support.
Operating as a regular cafe during the day, Tomosu Cafe transforms into a nighttime crying cafe from 9 p.m. Wednesdays to 1 a.m. Thursdays. This initiative, launched by Parent Base-Sagamihara, an NPO supporting families, is free for parents and grandparents raising preschool-age children. It offers advice on various topics, including babies' nighttime crying, child development, postpartum health issues, and financial concerns.
Yuka Mizuuchi, a 40-year-old public health nurse who leads the organization, notes that many parents feel isolated during the long, quiet hours of the night. Some even resort to taking their children out in cars to avoid disturbing neighbors. Mizuuchi hopes that nighttime crying cafes will serve as a sanctuary where parents grappling with the challenges of parenting can pause and find comfort.
The concept has gained momentum, partly due to the manga Yonaki Goya, which vividly illustrated the loneliness of nighttime parenting and inspired real-world spaces for families to gather and support one another.
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