Don’t deny kids a bedtime bond with Gran
DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: My mother is coming to visit and our little kids want her to sleep in their bedroom, where there’s a double bed and a single. My husband […]
Miss Lonelyhearts advises families to cherish bedtime bonding with grandparents. She recalls her own fond memories of her grandmother telling enchanting tales while tucking her and her sisters into bed. The warmth and magic of those moments left a lasting impression on the children.
To foster a strong connection, Miss Lonelyhearts suggests her correspondent share endearing stories from her own childhood with her husband. By recounting cherished memories, he will become more familiar with her grandmother and more invested in the visit.
Additionally, the columnist recommends taking her husband on errands or outings without the children so that the two can bond privately. Building trust and understanding between them will create a harmonious environment for the grandparent-grandchildren relationship to flourish.
As for the sleeping arrangement, Miss Lonelyhearts advises placing her grandmother in the kids' bedroom on the first night. She should then retire to the husband's company until everyone has drifted off to sleep. This approach allows for a peaceful transition and ensures a positive start to their time together.
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