From sadness to relief: How families cope with assisted dying grief
New research exploring how people cope when a family member chooses assisted dying highlights the "roller coaster" of emotions they often experience.
Grieving families navigate a spectrum of emotions after a loved one chooses assisted dying, as highlighted by new research. Interviews with 30 family members revealed feelings ranging from anger and guilt to pride and relief. Dr. Jessica Young, from Te Herenga Waka—Victoria University of Wellington, explained how the knowledge of an impending death date can heighten the sense of loss.
However, supporting a relative through the process can also strengthen bonds and create meaningful moments. Margaret Tennant's experience with her husband Warwick, diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, exemplifies this duality. Initially hesitant, Warwick's deteriorating condition and pain led to his decision for assisted dying in 2024.
While Tennant felt grateful for Warwick's ability to die on his own terms, she acknowledged the distinct grief unique to losing a partner. The research team has produced a podcast series and written resources based on over 100 interviews, aiming to shed light on the assisted dying process and provide support to those affected.
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