12 Questions You’ll Be Glad You Asked Your Grandparents
Skip the family-tree basics. Ask about bad decisions, outrageous expenses, and the trouble they somehow escaped.
Your grandparents might not realize they're important figures in your life. Asking them about their younger selves can be a valuable conversation. Start with questions like, "What's something you believed when you were my age that you don't believe anymore?" This can reveal how their beliefs evolved over time. Another question to consider is, "Tell me about the dinner table in the house where you grew up."
This will give you insight into their family dynamics during their childhood. You can also ask, "What was considered a waste of money in your house?" This question can provide insight into their values and priorities. Lastly, you might want to ask, "Who believed in you before you believed in yourself?" This question could introduce you to someone who played a significant role in their life, like a teacher or mentor.
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