I get so upset and frustrated: What dating is like on a GLP-1

GLP-1 drugs dominate online discussions, including dating and relationships. Katherine Lipovsky, a 41-year-old who has been on a GLP-1 for several years, expressed frustration about being single and dating while on the drug. She shared that it was difficult to find a man who didn't want to keep her a secret, as many men were embarrassed to be seen with her.

This feeling of embarrassment is rooted in societal bias against overweight individuals, which can lead to poorer physical and mental health outcomes. Lipovsky and others navigating post-weight-loss dating report changes in every facet of their lives, particularly in dating. Alejandra, a woman in her 20s who uses a GLP-1, also experienced increased attention from men after losing weight but still struggles with insecurities and concerns about whether her dates like her for who she is or her appearance.

Both Lipovsky and Alejandra use dating apps and have started going out to bars, but they face challenges related to societal misconceptions about GLP-1 use and the lack of understanding from potential partners. Despite the difficulties, Lipovsky believes she now enjoys "skinny privilege," which has brought better treatment from people, such as men opening doors for her and carrying her luggage.

However, she acknowledges that finding a partner who supports her decisions regarding GLP-1 use remains a significant hurdle.