The skin I grew up in

Each morning, the writer checks her phone for any unread messages from WhatsApp, emails, and social media platforms like Threads, Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook. She prefers to revisit old messages as they evoke memories of her children's younger days. A video of her speaking at the local school board about diversity, equity, and inclusion resurfaced, igniting a new reflection.

In a 2014 speech, she passionately argued for representation, stating that children need to see themselves in the world around them. The article delves into her personal experiences growing up with dark skin, feeling "less than" and envying her fairer-skinned peers. She shares how her mother's pampering rituals, including applying Fair & Lovely cream, were a source of comfort and self-esteem.

Now a mother herself, she observes that her children are confident and beautiful, regardless of their skin tone. The piece concludes with a call to action, urging women to examine and address the systems they may unknowingly perpetuate.