I knew my job wasn't the right fit for me. It still took me a year to quit.
I wanted to quit a job without a back-up plan because of how it was making me feel. My husband supported my decision, and I'm so glad I left.
The author recognized she needed to quit her job, and her husband provided support throughout the process. Courtesy of Kate Oczypok My inclination to please others kept her in a job that didn't suit her for too long. She preferred more structure and feedback than she received, and sought a change. Upon quitting, family and friends remarked she appeared lighter and happier.
As the eldest of five children, she was accustomed to taking charge and being responsible, while also being a self-imposed people-pleaser. These factors contributed to her reluctance to leave a job she dedicated a decade to. As a freelance writer, finding consistent work remains challenging. She could rely on this position, but was aware her mental health was suffering due to it.
There was less structure than she preferred, and it wasn't a good fit for her, who thrives on routine, organization, and feedback. After deliberating for over a year, she finally quit. Her husband's support and her therapist's advice played a significant role in her decision. Since leaving, she's experienced increased happiness and new opportunities.
Her family and friends have noticed her improved mental state. She's found writing for multiple publications and has more time to pitch and search for jobs. She remains committed to her husband's support, recognizing that sometimes one's well-being impacts the other. Ultimately, her decision was for the best, improving her mental health and excitement for the future.
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