‘You Belong To Yourself’: Congress Leader Rahul Gandhi Tells Women To Break The Cage Of Control

Congress leader Rahul Gandhi urged women to break free from societal, economic, and psychological constraints at the fourth edition of 'Chhatron Ki Goonj' in Pune. He emphasized that a woman's identity should not be limited to being a daughter, wife, or mother, and that she should have the freedom to decide her career, relationships, and future. The central theme of the event was women's independence and the various forms of control they face in everyday life.

Gandhi described India's 70 crore women as the country's "biggest strength," highlighting their unique journeys, imagination, and dreams. He stressed that a woman can be a professional, sportsperson, entrepreneur, or leader, and should not be defined solely by her relationships with men.

Referring to the traditional principles in the Manusmriti, Gandhi criticized the idea that a woman remains under the authority of her father, husband, and son. He emphasized that women do not belong to anyone but themselves, even if they have relationships with their family members. Gandhi contrasted this view with the notion that relationships with parents, husbands, or children mean a woman belongs to them.

He identified violence, disrespect, time, and control as the methods through which women are restricted. Gandhi argued that restrictions in the name of safety, such as curfew, marriage, and examinations, ultimately limit women's choices. He presented data on workplace inequality, disrespect, and the "Total Control" over women, including figures on the time women spend on housework, the underpayment of salaried women, and the barriers to education and employment.

Gandhi also discussed the "cost of violence," including physical, opportunity, and financial costs, citing figures such as female foeticide, harassment, physical violence, and rape. He emphasized that women's empowerment must mean ownership of their own lives, both economically and professionally.

The event also featured a young woman who shared her experience as a recently graduated lawyer who faced challenges due to the assumption that women will eventually marry and leave their careers. Gandhi urged women to believe in themselves and challenge social expectations that determine their education, marriage, and career choices.