Sameera Reddy recalls Suriya’s ‘cute’ excitement before becoming a father

Actress Sameera Reddy recently reminisced about her experience working with co-star Suriya on the 2006 film Vaaranam Aayiram, especially when he was preparing for his first child. Jyotika, Suriya's wife, was pregnant at the time and he was diligently shopping for baby clothes. Reddy found it incredibly adorable that her colleague was so excited about becoming a father, gazing at baby clothes with pure joy.

The actress expressed that it was a special moment for her, as she could sense the immense happiness surrounding the impending arrival of the child. The couple had their first daughter, Diya, in 2007.

Delnna Rrajesh, a psychotherapist and relationship breakthrough coach, pointed out that although the father's emotional journey into fatherhood may not be as visibly apparent as the mother's, it can start long before the baby is born. Men can mentally prepare for parenthood by discussing names, attending prenatal appointments, learning about newborn care, and even getting excited about tiny clothes. This mental preparation is crucial, as it allows fathers to develop their paternal identity.

Traditionally, fatherhood was defined by providing for the family, ensuring their financial security, and educating their children. However, modern fatherhood can evolve to encompass a broader definition that includes participating in the child's life, sharing in the invisible work of anticipating and planning, and being emotionally present during the pregnancy.

Reddy, along with psychotherapist Delnna Rrajesh, highlighted the importance of having conversations about the roles each partner plays in parenting. These discussions should cover topics such as childhood memories, definitions of good motherhood or fatherhood, sharing childcare responsibilities, and handling work, finances, and family dynamics. By addressing these aspects, couples can better support each other and their child during the transformative journey of parenthood.