PSNI urges male victims of domestic abuse to speak out

The PSNI has initiated a campaign to encourage male victims of domestic abuse in Northern Ireland to come forward and seek support. Statistics reveal that men constitute one-third of all domestic violence victims in the region. During 2025-2026, the PSNI recorded 5,817 domestic abuse cases against male victims, accounting for 32% of all such instances. Out of these, around 19% led to formal police actions like charges or cautions.

Detective Superintendent Kerry Brennan shared insights on the challenges faced by male victims. She described scenes where men sat quietly, shoulders hunched, and eyes fixed on the floor, not because they had done something wrong, but due to societal pressures making them feel they don't deserve to be heard. Domestic abuse does not discriminate based on gender—it destroys confidence, safety, and self-esteem.

Brennan emphasized that officers must protect without prejudice, stressing that abuse is abuse regardless of the victim's gender. She highlighted that every victim deserves dignity, support, and the assurance that the law stands firmly on their side. Failure to recognize this can perpetuate the stigma that traps individuals.

The campaign addresses various forms of abuse, including coercive control, emotional abuse, and controlling behaviors, which are often less visible yet equally damaging. Rhonda Lusty, the chief executive of the Men’s Advisory Project, welcomed the initiative. She acknowledged the difficulty in disclosing such abuse, noting that many men have endured abuse, coercive control, fear, and isolation for extended periods before seeking help.

Domestic abuse can affect men of any age and background, occurring within intimate relationships or family settings. It is not limited to physical harm and its consequences can be life-changing, and tragically, even life-ending. The Men’s Advisory Project, specializing in supporting men and boys affected by domestic abuse, encourages any man experiencing abuse to speak to the police or seek assistance from them.