Kareena Kapoor’s advice to her younger self could change how you chase success

Kareena Kapoor's recent interview has reignited conversations about the balance between ambition and calmness in pursuing success. The actress, who has long been driven by her desire to prove herself, admits she would have advised her younger self to work harder and to stay composed. It seems Kareena's desire for success was fueled by seeing her elder sister Karisma Kapoor's journey - her triumphs and setbacks alike.

Psychologist Delnna Rrajesh suggests that while ambition is a powerful motivator, it's important to consider its source. Reference groups - be they family, friends, or online acquaintances - often shape how we evaluate our progress. Comparisons can motivate, but constant comparisons to others can lead to feelings of inadequacy.

Delnna emphasizes that "calm ambition" involves meticulous preparation, discipline, and resilience when facing challenges. It's about doing what's within our control - our skills, work ethic, and responses to setbacks - while accepting that timing, opportunities, and other outcomes are outside our control. Emotional resilience, according to Delnna, grows when we stop conflating responsibility with control.

Kareena's advice echoes the timeless wisdom that ambition and peace are not mutually exclusive. Success involves both striving for greatness and maintaining a sense of calm. As Delnna concludes, "You do not have to choose between ambition and peace."