How to change your self-perception and beliefs
Below, Owen Fitzpatrick shares five key insights from his new book, Inner Propaganda: Leading Hearts and Minds Through Turbulent Times . Fitzpatrick is a social psychologist, behavioral change expert, and international speaker who has spent three decades studying how beliefs are formed, challenged, and transformed. He has traveled to more than 100 countries—including North Korea, Afghanistan,…
Changing your self-perception and beliefs can be a difficult process, but understanding how your mind constructs stories and defends them as truth can help you question and reshape those beliefs. Your brain acts as a double agent, presenting a version of reality that serves an agenda you might not even be aware of. To alter beliefs, you must first recognize that they are not objective reality but stories your mind has created and then defended.
The first step is to see yourself as your own greatest propagandist. When faced with negative thoughts or depression, understand that it's not just negativity you're experiencing; it's a belief system created by your mind. This internal "propaganda system" selects what you notice, decides what things mean, and feeds you a story you believe to be true. The key is to become aware of this internal narrative, as the first move in changing beliefs is acknowledging that there is a story at all.
Your brain is the ultimate double agent, providing you with a story that feels true, even if it's not based on objective reality. This means that your beliefs are often shaped by feelings and emotions rather than rational analysis. To change a belief, you must begin by making it feel right to the person or group you're attempting to influence. Facts alone rarely change minds, as people are influenced more by how a belief feels and how it aligns with their self-image and group norms.
There are five types of truth that are essential to understand in leadership and persuasion: objective truth, emotional truth, desired truth, shared truth, and past truth. Each type of truth is experienced as true by individuals, and acknowledging these different aspects of truth is crucial for changing someone's mind. If you fail to acknowledge someone's feelings or the truth they hold dear, you will not be able to influence them effectively.
This understanding is important, as polarization often arises because people don't recognize that others experience different truths as valid.
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