Why you should build an ‘inventory of courage’

Building an "Inventory of Courage" is essential for comprehending the many facets of one's career and life. It encompasses not only the achievements and successes but also the struggles and setbacks we encounter along the way. To truly understand the assets that make up our journey, we must reflect on and document the stories that form our "Inventory of Courage."

For the author, the first entry in their inventory dates back to the age of six, when they stood up to a bully. This act of courage led to subsequent leaps, and the inventory has continued to grow over time by taking stock of both their gains and pains.

One significant aspect of the inventory is its ability to help individuals trust their intuition. This compilation of data is not based on surveys or excel sheets, but rather on personal experiences and the intuitive insights we often overlook. It includes stories that help us understand our intuition and personal experiences.

A prime example of this is a moment in the author's career when they felt compelled to shift from a 16-year career in academia to entrepreneurship. While walking through their workplace, they heard their own voice say, "I don't want to do this." Upon realizing it was their own voice, they paused and reflected on their decision. This moment became a flashpoint in their inventory, marking an important turning point in their life.

Your inventory of courage is built from the times you have stood up for yourself, spoken out, or admitted to yourself that change is necessary. These moments of bravery serve as proof that you have faced challenges before and can do so again. When faced with a situation that prompts a change, it becomes an entry in your inventory, serving as a reminder of your ability to be brave.

One notable flashpoint for the author's mentor, Tony Martignetti, occurred in a boardroom during a meeting between executives. The atmosphere was tense, and Martignetti felt the need to leave the room, convinced that he had to change it. This seemingly simple exit led to a significant change in his career, and he now coaches others on how to navigate inside-out transformation – the process of fostering inner clarity before making external changes.

Martignetti's approach to flashpoints, known as "transcend and include," emphasizes the importance of not discarding the moments that break us but rather integrating them into the foundation for future growth. He encourages individuals to consider what activities bring them joy and fulfillment, even if they may not fit within traditional metrics.

These experiences, like building a website from scratch or engaging in creative pursuits, help bridge past experiences with current work, ensuring that brilliance is not lost but rather reinvigorated.

To create your personal "Inventory of Courage," observe moments when you catch yourself in a flashpoint – whether it's a tightened jaw or a voice that doesn't feel quite right. Instead of dismissing these instances, take the time to observe them and log them as data points. In the future, these entries will provide valuable insights and strength as you navigate the unpredictable journey of life.