I’m a Child Therapist—This Common Parenting Mistake Can Damage Confidence
Many parents want to help their children succeed, but Jill Hartrich says confidence often develops in unexpected ways.
Child therapists emphasize that an often-overlooked parenting mistake can harm a child's confidence. Many parents find raising children more challenging than expected, with 62% of parents reporting this according to a Pew Research Report. As mental health concerns among children rise, parents seek ways to support their emotional development.
However, a key issue is stepping in too quickly when children face challenges. Child therapist Jill Hartrich explains that parents who resolve issues immediately for their children hinder their ability to solve problems independently. Children learn confidence by tackling challenges and experiencing success. Hartrich warns that overly accommodating or protective behavior can lead children to believe their parents doubt their abilities.
To build confidence, parents should let children experience natural consequences when possible. Instead of immediately intervening, Hartrich advises offering support while encouraging perseverance. By acknowledging and praising children's efforts when they overcome difficulties, parents reinforce their belief in children's capabilities.
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