Farewell Romeo and Juliet. Is digital tech killing old-fashioned love?

Recent years have witnessed a surge in the use of dating apps and pornography websites, potentially leading to addiction and harming traditional notions of romance and genuine love. In a new study, international experts surveyed 664 users of dating apps and online porn to gauge people's perspectives on love and the value they place on it.

Dr. Reza Shabahang, a Flinders University psychology researcher and the article's lead author, explained that heavy use of these platforms is linked to issues such as anxiety, depression, unhealthy eating habits, and difficulties in controlling sexual behavior.

The researchers aimed to determine if addiction-like use of dating apps and pornography affects how individuals view romantic love. They found that the more people engaged in these platforms in an addictive manner, the less they valued love. They were more likely to see love as meaningless, believe it only prevailed when there was money involved, and exhibit a tendency to quickly move in and out of relationships.

Shabahang suggested that dating apps may overwhelm users with choice and shallow conversations, while pornography often emphasizes physical gratification over emotional intimacy.

However, the researchers identified a positive outcome: people who used technology mindfully were less likely to become hooked and reported fewer problems with their perception of love. Mindful technology use involves being aware of one's reasons for using these platforms and acknowledging that online experiences can differ from offline life.

The findings emphasize the importance of users being aware of the risks of harm when using dating apps and pornography, as this awareness can help them reap the benefits of technology while avoiding potential negative consequences.