{
  "id": 8830553,
  "title": "Der innere Kritiker: Immer selbstkritisch? Wie wir sanfter mit uns selbst werden",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/09/21/der-innere-kritiker-immer-selbstkritisch-wie-wir-sanfter-mit-uns",
  "topic": "health",
  "section": "Health & Medicine",
  "published": "2026-09-21T02:55:04.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Handelsblatt",
    "slug": "handelsblatt",
    "url": "https://www.handelsblatt.com/technik/medizin/der-innere-kritiker-immer-selbstkritisch-wie-wir-sanfter-mit-uns-selbst-werden/100256041.html"
  },
  "original_language": "de",
  "account": "Striving for self-improvement involves a delicate balance between self-awareness and self-compassion. Inner critics often emerge from early childhood experiences, creating a belief that we are not good enough. This psychological concept, known as an inadequacy imprint, can be traced back to various factors such as neglectful parenting, bullying, or witnessing others being harshly judged. The result is a subconscious fear of making mistakes, which becomes a protective mechanism to ward off further criticism.\n\nHowever, this approach often has the opposite effect. By being overly critical of ourselves, we increase our anxiety about making errors, leading to stress and procrastination. Renowned psychologist Ramón Schlemmbach emphasizes that recognizing and addressing these ingrained beliefs is essential for cultivating a gentler relationship with ourselves. The first step is to identify the unique origins of our inner critic, which could include specific life events or observations of others being harshly judged. The second step involves disarming the emotional power of these beliefs. This means acknowledging the past while recognizing that it no longer holds the same weight. By internalizing this understanding, we no longer require harsh self-criticism to feel whole. Instead, we can approach situations with a neutral description of the facts, such as \"I dropped something\" rather than \"I am so stupid.\" Through this process, we can gradually learn to treat ourselves with kindness and compassion, promoting emotional well-being and a more positive outlook on life.",
  "summary": "Fehler passieren jedem. Doch gerade uns selbst verurteilen wir oft aufs Schärfste. Wie frühe Erfahrungen unser Selbstbild prägen und was langfristig hilft, um sich selbst freundlicher zu behandeln.",
  "key_points": [],
  "editors_take": null,
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  "coverage": {
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  },
  "ai_generated": true,
  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}