{
  "id": 8732688,
  "title": "Men in their 20s ask older men: ‘What life advice would you give your younger self?’",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/09/20/men-in-their-20s-ask-older-men-what-life-advice-would-you-give-your",
  "topic": "culture",
  "section": "Culture",
  "published": "2026-09-20T16:33:42.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "The Independent Singapore",
    "slug": "the-independent-singapore",
    "url": "https://theindependent.sg/men-in-their-20s-ask-older-men-what-life-advice-would-you-give-your-younger-self"
  },
  "original_language": "en",
  "account": "A young man in his 20s post on Reddit asked older men for life advice, focusing on their experiences with regrets, mistakes, lessons, and guidance regarding relationships, finances, and success. The post encouraged reflection on personal growth and learning from others. Comments flooded in, with netizens sharing their own perspectives and experiences. One advised against marrying someone solely based on physical attraction and suggested assessing their conduct toward others. Another emphasized the importance of asking for things confidently and accepting rejections as part of life. A third stressed the significance of cultivating good habits and identifying what truly matters in life, encouraging the young man to prioritize experiences over societal expectations. Financial literacy was highlighted as a crucial early lesson, with advice to invest rather than spend on unnecessary luxuries. The value of a strong mindset was also stressed, as it enables individuals to cope with adversity. Lastly, a comment urged embracing mistakes and maintaining a willingness to learn, ultimately conveying that the goal is to live life with purpose and meaning.",
  "summary": "“Free yourself from social expectations and imagined norms,\" one comment read.",
  "key_points": [],
  "editors_take": null,
  "illustration": null,
  "coverage": {
    "outlets": 1,
    "also_reported_by": []
  },
  "ai_generated": true,
  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}