{
  "id": 4588987,
  "title": "Loving your kids shouldn't mean losing yourself: Jaya Bachchan",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/31/loving-your-kids-shouldnt-mean-losing-yourself-jaya-bachchan",
  "topic": "culture",
  "section": "Culture",
  "published": "2026-08-31T05:30:00.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Times of India",
    "slug": "times-of-india",
    "url": "https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/moments/jaya-bachchan-gave-up-her-career-for-her-children-the-emotional-truth-about-sacrifice-guilt-and-why-loving-your-kids-should-never-mean-losing-yourself/articleshow/133642364.cms"
  },
  "original_language": "en",
  "account": "Jaya Bachchan, once a prominent actress, walked away from her career at the height of her success. Amitabh Bachchan, her husband, expressed that he did not want a wife with fixed office hours, as his career became increasingly demanding. A conversation from 2007 still resonates with modern parents who face similar struggles. The guilt associated with parenting remains a constant, as modern parents often feel torn between their personal and professional lives. Delnna Rrajesh, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explains that it is normal for parents to feel conflicted emotions such as loving their children while missing their pre-parental lives. Emotional maturity allows individuals to experience these feelings simultaneously without guilt. The way parents talk about sacrificing for their families is also crucial. Saying \"I made the best decision I could at that time\" shifts responsibility onto the adult rather than placing blame on the child. Children learn valuable lessons by observing their parents' actions rather than being lectured at. Delnna emphasizes that caregiving decisions should be shared between both partners, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. Families should engage in honest discussions about their choices, weighing the benefits and drawbacks, and regularly reassessing the arrangement. Love should allow individuals to grow and evolve without sacrificing their identities.",
  "summary": "Jaya Bachchan's career sacrifices serve as a poignant reminder of the persistent issue of parental guilt faced by many today. Today's parents often struggle between the desire for personal fulfillment and the need to be present for their children. Cultivating emotional maturity helps them manage these conflicting feelings without overwhelming guilt. Viewing sacrifices as choices rather than…",
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  "coverage": {
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  },
  "ai_generated": true,
  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}