{
  "id": 3329831,
  "title": "The way Dolly Parton announced her death is an inspiration to us all",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/25/the-way-dolly-parton-announced-her-death-is-an-inspiration-to-us-all",
  "topic": "culture",
  "section": "Culture",
  "published": "2026-08-25T18:57:40.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "City AM",
    "slug": "city-am",
    "url": "https://www.cityam.com/the-way-dolly-parton-announced-her-death-is-an-inspiration-to-us-all/"
  },
  "original_language": "en",
  "account": "In a touching Instagram video, Dolly Parton’s nephew Bryan Seaver announced the country music star’s death, stating \"Sadness lies with us, not with Dolly.\" This simple yet profound message offers a perspective that is often overlooked. People typically focus on their own grief, which is understandable but doesn't acknowledge that the departed person is no longer experiencing sadness. Seaver’s statement provides a comforting reminder that grief is a natural response for the living, and we can't fully appreciate the peace of those who have passed.\n\nIt’s easy for empaths to translate their own sadness onto the deceased, wishing for more life or expressing regret over their passing. This emotional projection makes sense given the traumatic nature of a loved one’s final days or months. However, it’s essential to recognize that the person who has died is not feeling the same sorrow. Their emotional journey is distinct from ours, and that’s a vital distinction to maintain.\n\nDolly Parton’s nephew emphasizes that acknowledging our sadness is healthy, but we must avoid conflating our feelings with those of the deceased. Seaver’s nephew eloquently describes Dolly’s final words: \"She wants to rest in a beautiful bed of plush cotton because after a life wearing heavy rhinestones she finally deserves to be comfortable and have some rest.\" The message highlights a celebratory tone, focusing on Parton’s legacy rather than her absence. It underscores the idea that she will continue to influence and inspire through her enduring work.\n\nAs someone who recently lost parents, I’ve pondered the comfort of knowing they no longer suffer. But I hadn’t considered the additional comforting thought that they are not sad anymore. It’s a simple truth that brings solace: those who have passed lived fulfilling lives like Dolly and aren’t grappling with grief. This perspective resonates similarly to how Dick Van Dyke, who recently turned 100, feels about aging and the inevitable – he’s still alive and conscious of his journey.\n\nPosthumous videos, recording personal reflections before passing, have become increasingly popular. Such initiatives include Diana Athill’s recorded message, released after her death, and the Netflix series \"Famous Last Words,\" featuring pre-recorded talks from notable figures like Jane Goodall and Eric Dane. The tribute to Dolly Parton acknowledges her incredible contributions while celebrating her dignified transition. We honor her life’s work and her thoughtful way of departing this world. Rest in peace, Dolly.",
  "summary": "“Sadness lies with us, not with Dolly,” says Dolly Parton’s nephew Bryan Seaver in an Instagram video to announce the death of the country music star. It’s an obvious thing to say about someone who has passed, but nonetheless, an idea that isn’t often thought about directly. When someone passes we tend to focus on [...]",
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    "also_reported_by": [
      {
        "outlet": "Business Insider",
        "title": "I visited Dolly's Tennessean Travel Stop. From the coffee shop to the bathroom, it was a whole Dolly Parton universe.",
        "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/25/i-visited-dollys-tennessean-travel-stop-from-the-coffee-shop-to-the",
        "published": "2026-08-25T16:20:01.000Z"
      },
      {
        "outlet": "The Economic Times",
        "title": "Dolly Parton, country music legend, dies at 80",
        "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/25/dolly-parton-country-music-legend-dies-at-80",
        "published": "2026-08-25T18:20:38.000Z"
      },
      {
        "outlet": "El Pais English",
        "title": "Dolly Parton, country music legend, dies at 80",
        "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/25/dolly-parton-country-music-legend-dies-at-80-3329203",
        "published": "2026-08-25T18:20:47.000Z"
      },
      {
        "outlet": "Inc.",
        "title": "Dolly Parton Leaves Behind a Legacy of Entrepreneurship and Philanthropy",
        "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/25/dolly-parton-leaves-behind-a-legacy-of-entrepreneurship-and",
        "published": "2026-08-25T19:07:53.000Z"
      }
    ]
  },
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  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}