{
  "id": 3128411,
  "title": "The midlife clock is ticking: How we understand 'time left' can help us use it well",
  "url": "https://urgent.news/2026/08/24/the-midlife-clock-is-ticking-how-we-understand-time-left-can-help-us",
  "topic": "science",
  "section": "Science",
  "published": "2026-08-24T22:20:01.000Z",
  "source": {
    "name": "Phys.org",
    "slug": "phys-org",
    "url": "https://phys.org/news/2026-08-midlife-clock-left.html"
  },
  "original_language": "en",
  "account": "As we age into our midlife years, the concept of \"time left\" becomes a significant factor in our lives, influencing how we navigate our responsibilities and aspirations. Psychologist Bernice Neugarten observed that our \"social clocks,\" which dictate the timing of major life events, often kick in during this stage of life. These milestones can include marriage, home ownership, or raising a family, all following a socially prescribed timetable. The experience of middle age is marked by a sense of having time to develop coping strategies and make decisions with a greater sense of control.\n\nHowever, the reality of life is far from predictable. Unexpected negative events, such as the loss of a child or a family breakdown, can throw off our carefully laid plans and leave us feeling adrift. The COVID-19 pandemic, with its slew of negative life events, has further complicated this mental landscape for many. Studies show that people aged 40 to 50 are among the least satisfied with their life circumstances, attributing this dissatisfaction to reduced freedom of choice, health issues, and financial strain.\n\nIn middle age, we are tasked with managing roles as caregivers to our parents and adult children while juggling paid work and volunteer activities. This balancing act can be exhausting, and the stress of managing multiple responsibilities can lead to anxiety. According to experts, dwelling on anxious thoughts about our limited time doesn't help – instead, we should focus on identifying the positive outcomes that can emerge from negative experiences.\n\nThe pandemic has been particularly disruptive, seemingly resetting our social clocks by five years. Our future health, financial security, and perception of missed opportunities can shape our resilience and adaptability. For some, the pandemic has triggered a willingness to engage in more risky behaviors, such as asserting oneself at work or pursuing a less conventional lifestyle.\n\nInterestingly, the perceived weight of time spent on personal growth, such as for people in their 50s living with HIV, has proven to be more important than romantic relationships. In Canada, a significant portion of men and women in their 20s to 40s are unmarried, opting instead for careers. Chronic illness among middle-aged individuals has also been linked to lower anxiety levels when they feel less fearful about future health uncertainties.\n\nUltimately, our ability to adapt to these midlife challenges hinges on how we perceive and manage our limited time. Some view this period as an opportunity to reassess priorities and make decisive changes, while others may feel overwhelmed and anxious. The key lies in finding a balance between mastering our time and remaining open to change, lest we allow the pandemic's aftershocks to derail our plans.",
  "summary": "In Adaptation and the Life Cycle, psychologist Bernice Neugarten tells us that we arrive in our middle years by our social clocks, not our age.",
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  "disclaimer": "Summaries, key points and the editor’s take are written by software from other outlets’ reporting and may contain errors — always check the linked original."
}